Terms of engagement

This is pretty much a general creed that I follow.  We also have a set of rules and protocols that go hand in hand but generally speaking these are the standards I am held to by my Master and myself:

1.  I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and I from  having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.

2. I will not try to manipulate my Master. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. In other words, I will not top from the bottom.

3. I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.

4. I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master, and will do my best to fulfill his wishes and desires.

5. I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I know that submissive does not equal doormat.

6. I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. I will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where I have been. I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.

7. I will be responsive to my Master. I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I may assist him in his responsibilities as my authority. I know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect my Top to know thoughts or feelings which I do not share.

8. I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. I will not place total blame on my Top when it is not warranted simply because he is the Dominant. I realize that things may not work out as they should at times, and will do my best to put it behind me and move on.

9. I will give my gift of submission only to those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive. I will not place anyone in the position of Topping me non-consensually, nor will I give my respect to someone that has not earned it.

10. I know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think myself a "better" submissive because I choose to submit on a different level than another. I will not be boastful of the experiences I have had as a bottom.

11.I will be obedient to my Top even if I disagree with what he is requesting. I realize he has my best interests at heart and often knows better than I what I need in a particular situation.

12. I know that my actions reflect upon my Top, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way. I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Dominant.

13. Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honor. I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. I will take pride in who and what I am and will never show myself in a negative way.

A lil time away

Decisions decisions....life is filled with them and most are no where near easy. Sometimes no matter how much you  decide that you want something the act of doing remains arduous. I'm no pseudo 50 shades of gray type of girl. I jump into everything completely and I try not to let things get in the way. Making the complete and total pentacle of your satisfaction  24/7 the satisfaction of another is however, to say the least a complex undertaking. On occasion in my Lil mind I dwell on it and dare I say even find myself burdened by my own need to live under such strict and passionate circumstances. Luckily, however, I have a loving and compassionate Master. He is always there to not only offer a supportive and listening ear but, to provide me with the discipline I require in my rebellious states.  Thus I am free to meander through these lapses in focus "unscathed" and in the end loved all the more.